75 - Helping out a bereaved father - March 2022

We have just made donation 75 after a member got in touch to tell us about a man she is supporting. 


We cannot share all the details of his situation, but this was a donation we had no doubt we wanted to make.


K is a father of 4.  He continues to suffer with some mental health difficulties after the death of his mother and one of his daughters who  died in the most tragic of circumstances.  


We cannot share the details, but the stress involved has left him unable to work , cope independently and navigate the system to apply for appropriate support.  Thankfully now he does have a support worker to help him to apply for benefits (although the wait is still a long one) and he is receiving weekly provision from the local food bank. 


He has outstanding bills to pay and his situation has become really overwhelming for him and so he can never catch up or get in front.  


He would love to be able to spend more time with his other three children who normally reside with their mother, to do this he needs to buy beds and redecorate his spare room so they can come and stay overnight with him again.   


We really want to help this father and are pleased to be able to send him £500.  He is going to be supported in paying some of his bills and sourcing some suitable furniture for the bedroom.  His nominator told us what a massive difference this will make - and having a project to focus on with the redecorating will be so beneficial to his wellbeing - alongside the prospect of being able to have his children stay over once more. 


This really does feel like a special donation.  We send K our sincere condolences for his heartbreaking loss along with our very best wishes for now and the future, hoping he can spend happy times with his children in his home.

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